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V S Uma's avatar

Hey Srija

This โ€œwhy meโ€ is agreeable to the core .

As I had and have such feelings pondering in my thoughts too.

This is not about being jealous, bit a simple feeling of why things take the turn in the way I want

Niceee๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

๐Ÿ’œโ˜ฎ๏ธ๐Ÿ’œโ˜ฎ๏ธ

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Iโ€™m glad you could resonate with it Uma, Thank you so much for your constant support Iโ€™m truly grateful โค๏ธ

V S Uma's avatar

Hey

Certain emotions, thoughts are so common that it is felt by each and every one of us in this whole world.

So it resonates with the audience too ๐Ÿ‘

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

True that, sometimes all of us feel the same emotions and may be thatโ€™s what makes us more human ๐Ÿค

Ankit โ€'s avatar

I felt this... That โ€˜why meโ€™ really hits sometimes, but I liked how you shifted it though ๐Ÿค

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Thank you Ankit :)

VedJournal โœ๏ธ๐Ÿ“œ's avatar

What a wonderful Article

Just cleared my doubts that I used to ask myself " why Me"

Just highlighting this part

Career, relationships, health โ€”

it feels like in every aspect,

some people have to go above and beyond

just to reach what others get easily.

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Thank you Ved for your kind words ๐Ÿค

Ishika Jain's avatar

This was much needed to me right now. I am in the similar phase of life where I just feel stuck and I am so tired but reading this feels so good

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Iโ€™m so glad it made you feel good Ishika ๐Ÿค, the soul purpose of this article feels fulfilled.

Sometimes we all do feel stuck in life may be thatโ€™s just lifeโ€™s way of teaching us things :)

I hope you come out of this phase with strength and clarity, sending you lots of love and hugs๐Ÿฅฐโค๏ธ

ac's avatar

I get this. I think we all have moments where we compare without meaning to, especially when weโ€™re already tired from trying.

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

True, sometimes we get so tired trying for something and if itโ€™s been a while we start questioning everything.

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here ๐Ÿค

THE SILK GAZETTE-Mansi Ranga's avatar

What youโ€™ve written is so honest srija . Warmest hugs ๐Ÿซ‚ I like how you turned it into what can I do about it. It makes it a little less bearable to think in that direction, I genuinely pray for myself and others , that good people be blessed with goodness and goodness only. They deserve it the most ๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿฉท

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

This is such an insightful thought Mansi, thank you so much for sharing it here ๐Ÿค

Also praying and hoping for all the kind hearts here including you โค๏ธ

May love and prosperity surround them :)

THE SILK GAZETTE-Mansi Ranga's avatar

Thank you Srija ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

sofiaaโญ’'s avatar

Maybe itโ€™s okay to not have everything figured out.

๐Ÿ’— Needed this โœจ

Thainkyaaa for writing this beautiful reminder

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Iโ€™m glad it resonted with you ๐Ÿค

Thank you Sofia โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿซ‚

Ram's avatar

When I was diagnosed with this rare and complex disease at a young age, the pain and symptoms was so intense that I was almost sleepless for months. I constantly asked God, 'Why me?' I couldnโ€™t help but compare my life to others; I hadn't done anything wrong, yet I saw people who did terrible things living lives of leisure. Meanwhile, my condition wouldn't even allow me thirty minutes of rest as it continued to deteriorate.

Eventually, I finally found a good doctor who was able to stabilize my condition. However, I am still living in a 'danger zone' where things feel out of my control. Despite the progress, that question still haunts me: Why me? Why did I have to endure this much pain? So I think these question is valid for me ...why me? ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Ram's avatar

When I was diagnosed with this rare and complex disease at a young age, the pain and symptoms was so intense that I was almost sleepless for months. I constantly asked God, 'Why me?' I couldnโ€™t help but compare my life to others; I hadn't done anything wrong, yet I saw people who did terrible things living lives of leisure. Meanwhile, my condition wouldn't even allow me thirty minutes of rest as it continued to deteriorate.

Eventually, I finally found a good doctor who was able to stabilize my condition. However, I am still living in a 'danger zone' where things feel out of my control. Despite the progress, that question still haunts me: Why me? Why did I have to endure this much pain? So I think these question is valid for me ...why me? ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Iโ€™m so sorry to hear this :( i actually know how it feels like to have a health scare that you canโ€™t really do anything about and it keeps coming back ๐Ÿฅน

And the question yea, what did i do to deserve this haunts us to the core ,

I know life sometimes can be so unfair and cruel to kindest of the people.

I hope whatever you are going through becomes better and you heal sooner from it ๐Ÿค

Iโ€™m going to keep you in my prayers.

Sending you lots of blessings and healing โค๏ธ

Ram's avatar

Thankyou so much ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Shantanu Agasthyan's avatar

I have asked that and many such questions when I was much younger. Especially When I was in fifth grade or so. Then i understood that i really have an unbearable life. That I can only change how i experience it. The difficulties are still there but how I see those difficulties matters more. And i stopped asking why me.

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

It must feel so difficult to have those thoughts right from that age, Iโ€™m glad you over came those :)

Also I sincerely hope you have a beautiful and successful life ahead ๐Ÿค

Thank you so much for your valuable read, means a lot :)

Amruta Chaphekar's avatar

This was such a tenderly written piece, thank you for sharing your heart. I feel we all can relate to the pangs and the uncertainty of the question โ€œwhy me?โ€ And as you said we gotta transmit it back to - what can I do about it? And I feel god gives us these challenges because he knows only we can cultivate our life the way we can! This all is a part perhaps of his planโ€ฆ to take us to our higher purpose :)

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

Thank you so much for your insightful comment Amrutha ๐Ÿค

As the saying goes God gives his toughest battles to his strongest warriors โค๏ธ, May be itโ€™s all for something really big in life as u stated :)

Manishaโ's avatar

Not all flowers blossom early.๐Ÿฅน๐ŸŒผ

But It's okay to feel that way it's very human.

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

So true, Thank you so much for sharing it here โค๏ธ

Barsha's avatar

It's so true that we stumble upon articles at the correct time when we really need it and this is one of them. Thankyou for making my Saturday a bit better ๐Ÿ’—

Dr srija kalyankar's avatar

May be itโ€™s universe way of sending us a signal ๐ŸคIโ€™m so glad this made u feel better โค๏ธ sending you lots of love and hugs ๐Ÿฅฐ

Also how r you doing now?